Dulu waktu jaman gw kecil, sering banget nemuin kata-kata "Selamat Menempuh Hidup Baru" tertempel di kado-kado pernikahan tante/om gw. Gak ngerti banget, franky, sampe sebelum menikah pun, gw belum benar2 realize dengan kata-kata tersebut diatas.
Setelah nikah, i really understand what it means. Getting married is totally change the whole my life. I change myself as well, dalam artian untuk menyeimbangkan dua kepribadian, biar ga oleng ke kanan ke kiri:)
Being a wife, then a mother, trully resulting consequences. Dunia gw memang berubah. Waktu pertama menikah, memang belum terasa perbedaan itu, we had so much fun as newly wed. Ga ada beban. Tapi, ketika Rasya-the ShyBoy of mine- lahir, i was completely a new a person. I am a mother.
Slowly, luntur semua keegoisan gw ketika mata gw tertumbuk ke mata bening Rasya. Empati dan simpati gw semakin terasah. Sedih banget kalo di jalan liat ibu-ibu pengemis gendong anak, padahal umur anaknya seumur Rasya :(
Gw jadi lebih concern ke lingkungan sekitar. I am trying to give the best enviroment for Rasya's upbringings. Kesel kalo liat kendaraan keluarin asap hitam ngebul, sedih liat pohon-pohon di tebangin...
Oh ya, what makes me complete as woman, beside being a wife and a mother is i can cook now for my own family. Gw bikin sendiri snack or bekal Rasya sekolah.
It's trully amazing, experiencing my life now...something i would be very grateful to God...
Sekarang gw ngerti banget, ungkapan diatas, "Selamat Menempuh Hidup Baru"
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